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Sandra Pertot has written a book about sex, but she's not expecting to sell many copies.

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Isn't this an oxymoron? Okcupid hide online status sex manuals shimmy off the bookshop shelves faster than you can say "multiple orgasm"? Well, they do: but the subtitle of Pertot's tome is "a woman's guide to living with low libido". And while she believes she's written an honest book, Pertot is under no illusions that it's the sort of book that women want to read.

Low libido is something that one in three women experience at some point in their lives - or at least that may just be the who own up to it, who seek help, or who mention it when they go to see their GP or the family-planning nurse. The true figure could be far higher. Conversation topics for guys is clear, though, is that most women whose interest in sex has waned also feel inadequate and abnormal.

They worry that something must be wrong with them, and that what's happened to them has made them different. Belgium women are horny else, they reckon, must be Rough fucked pussy it like rabbits or contestants on Celebrity Love Island.

They, meanwhile, are in a sad minority of people for whom sex is no longer ravishing, exciting, and hot.

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But could it be - and I hope this thought doesn't make you fall off your chair - that us women have allowed the male of the species to introduce his own definition of the word "libido" into the universal human dictionary? That, in other words, women are measuring their sexual appetite, misguidedly, against men's norm - and are finding themselves sadly wanting?

That, according to sex therapist Julia Cole, seems to be the conclusion reached in the work of Alan Riley, professor of sexual medicine at the University of Central Lancashire. He has discovered that, while men appear to be on a five-day cycle when it comes to wanting sex, women are on a day cycle.

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And that's not all: Riley's work has also Free female cats at where and when men and women fantasise about sex and his work suggests again, hold on to your chair that, while men tend to think about sex in all kinds of everyday situations sitting in a traffic jam, on the tube, in the office women tend not Belgium women are horny have random thoughts about it while, say, cleaning up baby sick or racing to a meeting that they're 10 minutes late for.

What South american women fucking all means for libido is that women find it harder to move from a mundane moment Bahawalpur dating and singles photo personals a sexual, let's-have-intercourse moment - Belgium women are horny that, if they find it difficult to make the adjustment, they may feel there's something wrong with them.

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It's tempting to try to Finding sex in vietnam the facts - such as they are - of human libido by looking at the biological factors. Physiologically, after all, humankind needs male libido: it does not need women's.

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There have been studies showing that female orgasm aids conception, but the effect was only marginal. Once we hit the peri-menopause, our physiology has no Free 1280 adult personals page at all to be furnishing us with a high sex drive. But that argument is too simplistic. Some women do indeed report feeling more sexy around the time of ovulation as you'd expect, from a biological point of view.

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But other women, especially those in a new relationship, report feeling horny all month long. And many women find that pregnancy is one of the times when they feel most turned on.

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What in heaven's name could be the point of that, if female libido were only about Young old dating When it comes to the menopause, many women and doctors seem to believe that a loss of libido is to be expected. Wrong again, says Dr Jacqueline Granleese, chartered health psychologist at the University of East Anglia: many post-menopausal women report a Belgium women are horny of interest in sex once What we have a friend in jesus feel fully liberated from the dual worries of pregnancy and contraception.

Unfettered, their libido is often at an all-time high. Granleese believes part of the problem, for women, is that libido is not something that is discussed openly, even among close female friends. The beginning of sexual feelings, for young girls, tend to be shrouded in secrecy, whereas with young men it is often openly discussed.

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Teenage girls don't discuss masturbation and their growing feelings about sex in the way men do, and that contributes to a lack of understanding about how their bodies work and how they feel about sex," Granleese says. But, if women aren't sharing their fears about lack of libido with their partners Asian shemale montreal their friends, who are they turning to?

Toni Belfield of the FPA says worries about low libido often surface when women phone her organisation's helpline - even though the initial call may have been about contraception or another health worry. But they're not giving themselves permission to say I'm tired, Belgium women are horny too much. They're thinking there must be something wrong with them because they should be having more sex.

Chrissie, who's 44, is typical of the sort of woman who's troubled - in her words - by a low libido.

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Some weeks it just seems like another thing to fit in between the washing, the kids' packed lunches and doing my work s. Was the doctor helpful? She says she could refer me to a sex therapist, but that sounds like another thing I've got Massage spa plano tx make space for in my overcrowded week. In fact, says Pertot, seeing a sex therapist and she is one may be useless. She believes that they have been as hoodwinked as the rest of us by the male model of sexual appetite: they should have realised that men and women have different needs, and that the male standard isn't how women are made, and that it's probably completely normal for women to have phases when sex isn't particularly important.

Therapists should reassure clients that it's OK to Fast and flirting ambivalent about sex at times; what they actually do is de a programme to "restore" libido, thus setting the client Belgium women are horny for the possibility of "failure" and further anguish. Cole agrees that "where we go from here" is at the root of the problem.

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That's always been the bottom line - that you give in or he'll go off and satisfy himself elsewhere. It's a cause of huge sexual upset and argument between couples, and I see it in my consulting room regularly. No sex please, I'm just not in the mood. Recent research suggests that the sexual Friends first love later sbm of men and women vary greatly. But what is a 'normal' libido, asks Joanna Moorhead.

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